one of my favorite classmates, she is going to stop coming to class, because she is moving to a far away place, and she is also bearing ^^. happy for her, she is SOOOOOOOO gentle and kind, very hard to believe she used to be such a business woman.
she, another classmate and I, we 3 went to a very good buffet in Shinjuku, soooo nice, in such a beautiful building, but it is a little expensive.
then, we went karaoke, i had to spend time with them that i could not even go out with my another friend from my former school, which i think she might had something to tell me … i felt so bad … but really, recently, i doubt if i had any energy to hand around with any of my previous friends, … even more mentally tired. i think i will be a lot better after the exam …
anyhow, it really was so great being with this friend of mine, she is not like others, for one she is the same age as me, since i came to japan, i have never met even 1 person that is anything close to my age or my mentality or experience, since she had been in many foreign countries and worked many jobs before too, mutual understanding is workable to a good certain extent.
and she is so fun ^^. gosh, the songs she sings, hahahaha. Oh, and i found a WONDERFUL song from another classmate friend, “Jupiter”, me and my friend were like … silence … when that MV shows up …
even though me and my friend’s life are now so different, she has a child coming, and i have not even the slightest family value, but i really really like her, i think she is the ONLY friend of mine that is actually having a family and can still make me feel like we can communicate. hahaha, her way of thinking is soooo westernized but yet so reserved, hahahaha. don’t know how to describe in words.
today my korean classmate asked me, since i have Cantonese and English in my mind already, and now Japanese, will i sometimes mix them all up?
but since me and these 2 classmates, esp. the friend that is “expecting”, we can communicate BOTH in english and some simple japanese, it is soooo fun, … really, this is something that i really NOT expecting.
not expecting … some situations, are just better with english, when some, are just better with japanese. wow, cannot imagine if she can even use cantonese … so that is why, my answer for my korean friend is “more languages can actually help you communicate better sometimes, BUT, it can only happen if that person can understand AT LEAST 2 of the languages u are capable of ~~~ ^^”